Preparing for The Big Day
You've researched and found your perfect Domme. You've booked your session and the anticipation is rising. You can barely contain your… het hem, excitement 😏 Now what?
Well, little sub boy, the next part is crucial in aiding a very successful Domination session, almost as crucial as what will take place during the session. So listen up!
BDSM takes you to extreme places. Your adrenaline will soar, your body and mind will be put under stress and, if the right notes are hit, you'll end the time feeling completely elated, drunk almost. It's not for the faint-hearted but it's an oh-so-addictive feeling.
Follow my guidance on how to prepare for your BDSM session with me in Glasgow to ensure we get the best experience possible.
Get a good night rest the day before
I can't stress the importance of this enough. Arriving to your Domination session sleep deprived is not a good way to start. We all know how crappy we feel when we haven't slept well. We're groggy, irritable, unable to think clearly and generally lack the energy to do basic tasks, let alone be put through an intense play session.
Now, imagine you've had a great sleep beforehand. You arrive energised, mentally buzzing for session and can endure the hours of torment, only feeling exhausted after I am done with you. Doesn't that sound like a much better state to be in?
For God's sake, EAT!
I've lost count of the amount of times I have had to administer emergency sugar during a session because my sub didn't eat all day and became close to passing out.
What we do is intense and causes your body to burn energy in double-time. If there's no reserves in the tank, guess what will happen? Yep, you can pass out or go into a state of shock, particularly after the adrenaline drops.
If you're a bit of a nervous dude and struggle to eat, try eating a banana, dried fruit, nuts or cereal bar before you arrive so that you have enough energy for the session. When you finish, make sure to eat a big meal, preferably your favourite food. It's such a satisfying feeling and end to your amazing day!
H20 is your pal
We all know our bodies are made up mainly of water, and that water is pretty damn important. But you're probably wondering why this has to be considered for session?
Well, dehydration comes on quickly, especially if you're nervous or sweating, both of which you will likely be in my presence. But it's more the impact on the mind that concerns me, and by now you should know that BDSM sessions have a big impact on the mind.
When you are dehydrated, your mind becomes foggy and slow. Thinking clearly becomes a struggle and there is risk that you make poor decisions, or believe something feels acceptable when, in hindsight, it isn't. This is particularly important when it comes to your boundaries and limits for the session. We don't want to engage in something that you later regret or feel bad about all because your brain was screaming out for water!
For those who enjoy edging and milking sessions, this point is super important. I think you know why 😉.
Plan your journey
Noone likes being late or rushing around like a headless chicken. I only want you panting and exhausted when you leave, not when you arrive!
If you've never visited me before, give yourself extra time to find me, figure out where to park and for the inevitable holdups to happen. You're probably already feeling a tad apprehensive about the session so don't add any unnecessary stress to the day.
Given that I session in the busy Glasgow City Centre, please take this into account when planning your route to me. I always provide the session details a day or so in advance, with clear instructions on navigating to me and a few parking options to make your experience as smooth as possible.
Wear what feels comfortable
I know you want to impress me and for you to look your best. I appreciate the effort you make for me.
However, if wearing your tailored suit, tight shirt and ridiculously annoying dress shoes is going to make you feel awkward and physically uncomfortable on your travels, leave that outfit at home.
For sure, arrive in a clean and well-presented manner but wear what feels comfortable to you. Besides, your clothes aren’t going to be on for long anyway!
Still nervous? Talk to me.
Nerves are normal. Even my most experienced subs still get a few nervous tingles as they approach me for session; it's a sign that you're excited about our Domination session, and so you should be!
The feedback that I get constantly from new subs, whether they are new to the scene or just new to me, is how welcoming and relaxed I am. I instantly put people at ease, I guess it's a kind of gift I have!
So if you're nervous, do know that I am extremely experienced with easing new submissives into session and you're certainly not the first, or last, to feel overcome with nerves. They will quickly vanish once you are in my company.
For the Very Nervous Sub, I find having a whatsapp or phonechat session prior always helps. It's an opportunity for us to get acquainted and talk through any worries you may have, leaving session day open for excitement.
It must be clear now that I want you to have the best experience possible when you book your Domination session with me in Glasgow. By following this guide, it will help you prepare, physically and mentally, for exploring intense world of BDSM.
See you soon,
Miss Raven